Book of Memories for Martha Sue Shaffer

Condolence From Lisa M Bewley

Mon, 17 Dec 2018 14:16:57 EST

Happy Birthday Sue. Thinking of you today. Love, your sister-in-law Lisa

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Thu, 17 Dec 2015 23:44:20 EST

Thinking of you today on your birthday. Jim and I sure do miss you. We had a lot of good times together. My best friend Carlena is in heaven with you. You guy's probably have had a popper or two. Remember you and Carlena drinking those in Concord? You said they tasted just like cotton candy. Not true, they were gross! Happy birthday Sue!

Condolence From Jim

Sun, 03 May 2015 10:56:07 EDT

Sue Got you on my mind, I've always got you on my mind. I sure miss you. Drove by your old house in San Ramone,thinking of Easter when Josh did summersaults from one end to the other on the school yard.. LittleTheo driving his battery car, he looked so awesome, like a little man driving around town, good times. I love you

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Sat, 11 Apr 2015 16:23:15 EDT

When tomarrow starts without me,

and I'm not here to see,

If the sun should rise and find your

eyes, filled with tears for me.

I wish so much you wouldn't cry,

that way you did today,

while thinking of many things,

we didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,

as much as I love you,

and each time you think of me,

I know you'll miss me too.

When tomarrow starts without me,

don't think were far apart,

for every time you think of me,

I'm right there in your heart.

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Love and Miss You So Very Much Sis

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Fri, 27 Feb 2015 23:19:02 EST

I miss you so much I couldn't ask for a better mom and best friend think of u every day I love u so much I know your watching over me helping me get my life together thank you for every thing you have tought wish you were here but I'll see you again one day

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Fri, 16 May 2014 13:10:30 EDT

Suezie Q, I love you,brown eye girl. I hear them words of those songs in my mind all the time and I can't help but think of you. I miss you and mom so much, I still can't believe you're not here and I'm just waiting for the phone to ring. Love always your little brother Jimmy.

Condolence From Karen

Mon, 10 Mar 2014 20:58:54 EDT

Have you on my mind so so much. Love You Sis

Condolence From jim

Sun, 09 Feb 2014 09:44:03 EST

I sure miss you.

Condolence From Karen

Sat, 08 Feb 2014 12:32:48 EST

Hi Sissy, Love and Miss You So Very Very Much everyday. Thank You so much for being my Big Sister.

Condolence From jim

Sun, 26 Jan 2014 11:03:21 EST

I love you

Condolence From Karen

Wed, 08 Jan 2014 12:55:34 EST

Hi Sissy I am wanting to hug you so much. I miss you so very much. I love You. XOXOXOXOXO

Condolence From Karen

Wed, 01 Jan 2014 13:50:33 EST

Hi Sissy, Hope You, Mom,Grandma and Donna are having a Happy New Year. I miss you all so very much. It would be better if you was here with me. Love you so very much.

Condolence From Karen

Tue, 24 Dec 2013 22:15:58 EST

Silent Night, Holy Night All Is Calm, All Is Bright Round yon virgin mother and child Holy infant so tender and mild Sleep In Heavenly Peace Sleep in Heavenly Peace Silent Night, Holy Night Son Of God, Love's Pure Light Radiant beams from T Holy Face with the dawn of Redeeming Grace Jesus Lord, At Thy Birth Jesus Lord, at thy birth" Silent Night,Holy Night! Shepherds Quake At The Sight Glories Stream From Heaven Afar Heavenly hosts Alleluia! Christ, The Savor Is Born Christ, The Savor Is Born

Condolence From Karen

Tue, 24 Dec 2013 21:19:23 EST

Hi sissy, Read that you was finally set at Peace Over the Bidge. Wish I really could have been there, but you know I would have been. Thought I was going to get a call to go but never recieved one. Thats Ok we are and always be together I know you are here with me now. Want to tell you I Love You very Much and Merry Christmas. Miss your hugs and kisses. LOVE YOU SISSY

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Tue, 17 Dec 2013 11:23:17 EST

Hi Sissy, wish you was here so much. I miss not being able to call you for your Birthday. Happy Birhtday Sissy Love and Miss you

Condolence From jim

Mon, 16 Dec 2013 21:19:44 EST

Well today 12/16/13, we brought Mom's ashes to their final resting place. They are at the Sacramento Veteran Cemetery,5810 Midway rd Dixon CA. You would like Sue, she is looking out over a very nice water fall. I love you Suezie and I will sing you happy birthday tomorrow, big 58. If I could just hold you in my arm's and squeeze you tight. You will always be in my heart.

Condolence From Jim

Sun, 08 Dec 2013 05:15:15 EST

Well babe,sorry for taking sooo long but I have fulfilled your wishes.Last Saturday,I took your remained and set them free at the Golden Gate Bridge,just like you did with Grandma Ernie. Sorry for taking so long but I was waiting for a/any family member, to step up and help but that did not happen. It was a beautiful day and very calm, I think grandma was waiting for you.i love you so much Suzie. I sure wish I could hold you in my arms,hold you tight. Love always tour little brother jimmy

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Thu, 28 Nov 2013 20:28:36 EST

Happy Thanksgiving Sissy Love you. Made the Yams you loved so much. Also made Moms Shrimp Dip to. I remeber hwen me and you almost ate the whole bowl in Bangor when mom 1st made them. Kisses and Hugs to you...Miss You So Very Much

Condolence From jim

Fri, 01 Nov 2013 20:46:31 EDT

Thinking of you.

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Mon, 21 Oct 2013 21:24:24 EDT

Have been thinking about you so much. Just want to tell you I love and miss you so very much Sissy.

Story shared: Hi Sissy

Thu, 08 Aug 2013 10:51:04 EDT

I wanted to add some photos of you with all of us. I will add all of them a little at a time. I miss you so much Sis. Thought with you being gone would get easier, but it is only getting harder knowing that I cannot give you a hug or call you to tell you big brother is on. You would be so mad at this Big Brother this year LOL I can just see you now yelling at the TV. BIG HUGS AND KISSES TO YOU, MOM, DONNA AND GRANDMA. Love you so much!!!!!!!!

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Thu, 08 Aug 2013 10:45:08 EDT

SUe & Bub, with our new puppy

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SUe & Bub, with our new puppy

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Thu, 08 Aug 2013 10:45:08 EDT

SUe & Bub, with our new puppy

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SUe & Bub, with our new puppy

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Thu, 08 Aug 2013 10:41:15 EDT

Sue & Mike, Loved to go Fishing

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Thu, 08 Aug 2013 10:40:03 EDT

*Sue* Karen and Donna

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Thu, 08 Aug 2013 10:38:28 EDT

our Big Sister Sue, Loved us all

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Sat, 13 Jul 2013 00:31:28 EDT

I wish I could hold you in my arms right now, oh my gosh Sue i always tell you how much I love you and you think to yourself about the love you have in your heart but not physically having you here were i can hold you touch you kiss you, hurts so bad. I cry everytime i think of you babe. my love for you is pure and i hate that you are gone, i don't think my heart will ever heel I just cant stop thinking of you. i love sue, your lil brother always and forever.

Story shared: Love And Miss You

Fri, 24 May 2013 10:34:32 EDT

I love you so much Sissy, doesnt seen like a year has gone bye since you left us. Miss you so much xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Story shared: Love and Miss You Everyday

Sun, 19 May 2013 12:23:48 EDT

Hi Sissy, I cannot believe a it has been almost a year now, I feels like it was a weeks ago I said goodbye to you. I think about You and Mom everyday. Wish you was here and not there, but I know you are in a better place with no pain. I love and miss you so very, very much. I still have your voice with me, but its not the same just want to hug you so much. The pain I have for you not being here is never going to go away. Hugs and Kisses to you LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!

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Fri, 17 May 2013 10:13:17 EDT

It seems like just last week I was holding you in my arm's and telling you how much I love you. I think of you every moment of everyday. I love you Sue so much and I wish we were together right now. Memories are all I have now, but there are no bad one's. Because you are the best sister a brother could ever have.

Story shared: LOVE

Mon, 29 Apr 2013 23:52:17 EDT

Sue, i miss you so much. i miss the talks, the laughter,jokes. you always had great jokes and some how you used to be able to remembor them all so good, you would just crack me up. I think of you all the time. I remember when you lived with Lisa and I and all the partying we all done together. Remember when that one older couple went with us and the guy threw up his arms to cross em and lean against the way and he was just a bit to far away and actually went threw the wall, oh my goodness that was the funniest thing ever. And I remember you laughing so hard and yelling "let's get out of here before they catch us". Or how about the time in the moose lodge we were playing that machine that picks up the stuffed animals and we had laid it down on the ground to get what we wanted, i can't believe no one caught us. I love you, your baby brother Jimmy

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Mon, 29 Apr 2013 23:36:38 EDT

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Story shared: Just love

Wed, 13 Mar 2013 00:30:16 EDT

Suzie que I love you and miss you so much. I still can not believe you have passed on, it just doesn't seem to register that you are truely gone. I keep thinking to myself that: yeah i will see you in a couple weeks and talk to you on the phone tommorrow. Wow, I know I have told you many times but want to say it again, Sue you are without a doubt the best sister any brother could ever have or had. I love you so much, there is comfort in kmowing that you are much better now and that you are not struggling.

Story shared: Sacramento County Fair

Thu, 28 Feb 2013 12:44:31 EST

LOL was just sitting here thinking about the time that Aunt Paula, Uncle Brad Me, Steve Big Theo and Sue went to the Sacramento County Fair. We was on the ride in the tunnel when a guy jumped in our car and scared the crapola out of us and Steve was punching him till the ride stopped. It was so funny after the ride was over, because the guy just did not want to get out of our car. Wonder if the guy ever did that again LMBO.

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Mon, 25 Feb 2013 13:27:24 EST

Your Little Sister

Condolence From Karen

Mon, 17 Dec 2012 09:36:42 EST

Good Morning Sissy Happy Birthday...Love and Miss you so much. Wish I could tell this in person and give you a BIG Hug. Still listening to your voice all the time. Still cannot believe your gone to Heaven and not here with us. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!! I have lost my Best Friend, but I know you are in a better place, but still miss you so much. It still hurts really bad knwing I will not get anymore messages on my phone from you saying "Hey Jug You There" LOL. I fell you presents around me all the time thou. I LOVE You so and wanted to tell you Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!

Condolence From Jim Bewley

Thu, 13 Dec 2012 01:53:26 EST

Sue, I love you so much and miss you more then you could imagine. My life has not been the same since you have passed away. You were my everything and I always looked forward to talking with you, oh gosh how I miss it.Nobody know's how sick you were in those hospital except me and Dad and they could not ever believe how bad you were. The doctor told me that you would never come back to use and you would stay in that condition. Just looking at you, made me cry. But I new you were still there. I could see it in your eyes and them dang doctors told me I was wrong when I said you were trying to comunicate with me, they said it was not possible. Well NOT ONLY WAS IT POSSIBLE ,you were a miracle because you came back and I just felt it in my heart that everything would be okay. Now; I believe that you died of a broken heart, you and mom were so close that your heart could not bare being away from mom. That it what help's me deal with this whole bummer deal. Anyway Sue I want to tell you I love you and you will always be in my heart forever.

Story shared: LOVE YOU

Fri, 19 Oct 2012 14:33:39 EDT

I SURE DO MISS YOU. I AND SARA KEEP LOOKING FOR YOU,BUT NEVER THERE. I'LL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU.BY FOR NOW.

Condolence From Your Little Sister

Tue, 09 Oct 2012 10:25:47 EDT

Hi Sissy, Just wanted to say how much I Love and Miss you so very much. I know you are in a better place now now, but really wish you was still here with me playing with our beads. I will be there with you when the time comes. I still listen to your messages on my phone every day. Makes me smile every time you say "Hey Jug" I always hated it when you called me that in front of people, but wish you was here to call me Jug. Miss the phone calls from you every time Big Brother and Survivor is coming on. I know you are watching over us like you always did when we was growing up. I LOVE and MISS you so very much Sissy. I see you are making the Iris Plants grow in the yard you gave me years ago from Oroville LOL. Hope you are getting some yard sales I really miss that with you. Robey is doing awesome, but I know you know that. Love and Kisses to you Sissy...... Love You!!!!!

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Thu, 13 Sep 2012 14:32:26 EDT

Story shared: LOVE YOU

Wed, 12 Sep 2012 20:20:39 EDT

SUSIE I LOVE AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH, YOU ARE WITH ME ALL THE TIME, I AND SARA LOOK FOR YOU EVERY NIGTH AS WE WALK BY YOUR PLACE. WE KNOW YOU ARE HAPPY AND WITH MOM. WE SURE DO MISS YOU TO,WE WILL BE WITH YOU ALL ONE DAY. BY BILL AND SARA.

Story shared: LOVE

Wed, 12 Sep 2012 20:14:22 EDT

Sue I love you so much and miss you more then you can imagine, it is so weird not having you around, I keep thinking that you and I will be talking on the phone anytime now.I just can't get over you being gone. I sure wish things would have turned out different for you but one thing im sure of, is you are better now with no sickness or pain and God will take care of you. love you

Condolence From Jimmy

Sat, 25 Aug 2012 07:39:52 EDT

Suesie Q. I have always loved calling you that, specially when I would call you on the phone. I just got so excited say that, I think because it gave me a sense of warmth and joy. You were more then just my sister, you were my second mom. You always looked after me and took care of me; no matter how down you were in your day, I could always be sure of a positive outlook from you. I think of all those crazy stupid things I have done and got hurt or in troulble, you were always there to pick me up or patch me up. I still can not believe you have passed away Sue, it is like we just have not talked to each other in few days, I keep thinking Im gonna wake up and your going to be there right next to me. Everytime I picture you in my mind and I can't stop crying, you were so great Susie I love you so much. I do take comfort in knowing you are with mom and you two are having fun cracking jokes, talking and doing some sort of crafts. We had such a wonderful relationship and I will always cherish it Sue. Love you and talk to you soon. Love your little brother, Jimmy

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Condolence From BILL DOUGHERTY

Mon, 30 Jul 2012 19:37:03 EDT

HI SUSIE I MISS YOU A WHOLE BUNCH AND I LOVE YOU.WISH YOU AND MOM WAS HERE WITH ME, I THINK OF YOU ALL THE TIME. BY FOR NOW YOUR DAD.

Condolence From jimmy

Sun, 22 Jul 2012 21:47:48 EDT

I love you Sue and I miss you. I just can't believe that, you and Mom are not here. Life does continue but it surly is not as fulfilling as it should be, since you two are not physically here with use. If you can hear me during my thought's (hope I'm not talking too much) ha ha. Love you babe and give mom a hug and kiss please. Love always, your liL brother Jimmy

Condolence From BILL YOUR DAD

Mon, 02 Jul 2012 17:21:31 EDT

SUSIE I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH AND ALWAYS WILL. I MISS YOU COMING DOWN TO SEE US, IWILL NEVER GET USED TO YOU BEING GONE BUT I KNOW YOUR HAPPY BEING WITH MOM GOD BLESS YOU BOTH I LOVE YOU BOTH WITH ALL MY HEART. BY FOR NOW DAD

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Wed, 20 Jun 2012 04:03:16 EDT

Sue, you have always loved going to the coast and just looking off into the sunset. I am reminded of all the wonderful times we have all shared with you . Well this sunset will always and forever be yours to have.

Condolence From Jim

Wed, 06 Jun 2012 02:32:58 EDT

What I wouldn't do to hold you in my arm's and hug you, whisper in your ear "I love you Susie Q" (like I always did, every single time we seen each other). Now I look up, close my eye's, have a conversation with you in my mind and tell you "I love you Susie Q"

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Wed, 06 Jun 2012 02:18:06 EDT

One time years ago, Aunt Debbie,Aunt Paula, Cousin Danny, Susie and me went to Walnut Creek CA to see a movie. We had stopped at the BurgerKing across the street to eat before we went in to the movie. Anyway we were all just laughing and goofin off having a good ol time. We started pulling the straws of our drinks up and down and it made a really funny noise, so we kept doing and just craking up laughing, well this little girl across the room started to join in and was having fun too, her dad got all mad and smacked her, told her to stop it because it was not funny and it was rude. Aunt Paula and Sue were mad and told that dad what they thought (not all nice things either) but I have never forgot that and it seems like just last year it happened. That same day I also learned that Danny was the worst driver ever HA HA HA he was crazy and never even looked at the road while he drove,if you ever drove with Danny then you know what im saying.. Love you Susie Q ,

Condolence From Jim

Tue, 05 Jun 2012 05:56:56 EDT

I miss you so much Suesie.

Condolence From Gina Renner Anderson

Mon, 04 Jun 2012 17:42:59 EDT

Thoughts and prayers for all of Sue's family and friends. With our sympathy, Gina & Charlie Anderson

Condolence From Gina Renner Anderson

Mon, 04 Jun 2012 17:42:24 EDT

Thoughts and prayers for all of Sue's family and friends. With our sympathy, Gina & Charlie Anderson

Condolence From Paula Carscadden

Sat, 02 Jun 2012 16:40:37 EDT

Susie Q My childhood partner in crime. *SMILE* We go way back, you were born 14 months after me, we grew up together and our lives continued to cross as we aged. When I think of you, the first thought is how much you loved your son, mother and siblings. I can't recall a conversation with you that you did not mention all your brothers and sisters. How you worried about them, just like a second mother. You loved being with all of us here, but now you get to be with the ones who left us. I know you are happy. Love, Aunt Paula

Memorial Candle lit by walter dougherty

Thu, 31 May 2012 17:07:29 EDT

your dad bill

Condolence From Jim Bewley

Wed, 30 May 2012 15:34:12 EDT

Sue I sure love you babe. All I can think about is hearing you say "Hi little brother" "Hi Jimmy" it made me smile everytime you said it, because it was with so much love in your voice. Not only were you a sister to me but you were also a second mom to me. I don't think a brother could ever be so close to a sister as you and I were, you will be missed so very much. I LOVE YOU SUE

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